I was insensitive to our hostess earlier. Of course I feel badly for her situation as well.

I got to thinking about my own stepson's issues after his parents broke up....and got distracted.

Structure's a good point, though, and one my stepson did better with. We needed to give him a mix of physical activities for energy burning along with more mental ones. (He's a kinesthetic learner, so it's not really a shocker that he wound up in the military.)