So far, she's the only one who hasn't weighed in at any level.

She's been telling me everything is her daughter's issue and she's "sick." I mean it - EVERYTHING. Too busy, can't take phone calls, you name it.

That's evil. That's lying. And using your kids in a very shitty way.

Seriously. If it wasn't for BIL, I seriously doubt she would even know where I lived right now. *sigh* And he's one of those who just doesn't want the whole find 'someone new' thing. He didn't ask for this.