I have a sister that could be a clone of yours. In her last divorce, she treated the man so poorly we gave him money to get a lawyer because he could not afford it and the area he lives in doesn't see any reason to give legal aid to a white male. Yes, I paid for a man to defend himself against my sister.

Her children are growing up to be worse than she is. One of them owes me several hundred dollars and has just joined a cult. He owes money to the electric company, phone company and student loans. He has no plan to pay any of it because the cult and my sister told him it doesn't matter. One of the cult members stalked me for a while.

I think we all have them. One of my relatives asked us all to be civil to each other years ago. I tried, she didn't. It did not last long.

My dad was a lot like her. Used people up and threw them away, but she's worse and her kids are going further at a younger age.