Aug. 11th, 2019

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House Votes To End Subminimum Wage:

bitchesgetriches:

autisticadvocacy:

“For the first time, federal lawmakers have approved legislation that would end a practice allowing employers to pay people with disabilities less than minimum wage.”

It’s about fucking time.

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So apparently my cat has made friends with the local mountain lion

I sent a group text to my mom and my cousin warning them about it

All my cousin replied was “I ship it”

I have this urge to peer outside all evening to attempt to get a glimpse of my kitty’s large and terrifying girlfriend.

If it fits, it ships.

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Honestly, most writers in fandom don’t want constructive criticism in comments. I know it seems strange at first, but it’s a general norm in fandom that unless someone says “Concrit welcome!” you probably should confine yourself to saying what you liked about the story. So you’re doing exactly right, and it’s good of you to think about this and ask before changing. 

Follows a lecture for people who are not as thoughtful, so please don’t think the rest of this is me yelling at you :D The general drift of the idea is 

1. That they wrote the fic as a gift to fandom at large, and one doesn’t criticize gifts; 
2. That if it didn’t actually make you stop reading and backbutton, could it have been that awful? 
3. It’d be a bit like going up to a stranger on the street and criticizing their haircut. They don’t know you and didn’t ask for fashion tips.  

The most common argument for concrit is “I’m just trying to help!” but well, nobody asked for that help. A lot of people write fanfic as a way to enjoy themselves, and turning it into something to Improve Yourself Upon kind of ruins the fun bit. And even if none of these convince a person to avoid giving concrit, the fact that it’s a social norm in fandom means that it’s just considered rude. “I didn’t like your fanfic enough to respect social norms” is not the message most people want to send. 

I also think there’s a larger discussion to be had about the grave sin of “knocking someone out of a story” (again, not yelling at you, it’s a very common thing that comes up in the concrit discussion). It’s come to be seen as this truly awful thing, to perturb a reader with an anachronism or a typo or an awkward turn of phrase, and I question why. There are moments in almost any story I encounter – fanfic, movies, television, novels, comic books – where I see a strange phrase or something untoward happens and I have a moment of “whoa, that was a weird choice the author made.” 

But then I generally go right back to enjoying the story. 

I think it is extremely rare that people get pushed so far out by something minor that they can’t keep reading, that one small moment of “what?” ruins the story completely. There are legit reasons to stop reading a fic, and if people are upset or angry or hurt they should stop; I’m not talking about triggers or untagged adult content or what have you. My point is, if it didn’t stop you from reading the story, then you must have enjoyed the fic more than you were bothered by the single moment, right? So why focus on that? 

But above and beyond the idea of focusing on what you liked instead of the one moment you didn’t, this is a problem that is very specific to fanfic. I think we’ve really put up an altar to this idea of the purity of experience, that nothing can come between us and our enjoyment of a story ever, and we apply it very unfairly to fanfic, particularly since it is produced by amateurs for free. It’s not something I ever see in criticism of non-fanfic media, by fandom or by professionals. 

Anyway. I’d really like people to examine why fanfic is held to such a stringently high standard that a moment of discomfort in the middle of one’s pleasure reading is the only thing that starts to matter to some people and sometimes the only thing they comment on. And maybe if we collectively rethink how view that moment – not as something vital but as a byproduct of vast quantities of free entertainment, like a commercial or mosquito bites at the beach – then perhaps it would even stop bothering people as much. 

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not-to-worry–fan-not-stalker:

mommapolitico:

satansfuzzytestes:

Sexetc.org is a website where you can input your state ( In the U.S) and it will show you all the laws regarding consent laws (if any), abortion laws, lgbt community rights, sex education laws, etc. I highly recommend this site. It also recommends you to places that can help you pay for birth control, abortions, condoms, Etc.

Every young person (and adult, for that matter!) should have access to this site, run by Rutgers University.

Signal boost for your own protection.

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emily84:

tikkunolamorgtfo:

class-struggle-anarchism:

brainstatic:

Psst, hey, Marilyn Monroe’s image as a freewheeling sexpot was a carefully constructed lie. The real Marilyn Monroe was a roiling tragedy and her life was an indictment of our society as a whole. She was orphaned after her mother had a schizophrenic breakdown, bounced around between foster homes where she was sexually abused, and married a 21-year-old at 16 to get out of being sent to an orphanage. Hugh Hefner published nude photos of her without her consent that were taken when she was 23 and desperate. She suffered severe anxiety and depression, which she coped with by drinking and using barbiturates, and was already a full-blown addict when she became famous in the mid-50s. Her career was one of exploitation, condescension and alienation, and she killed herself at 36. That Hugh Hefner, a man who was at best an unpleasant footnote in her life, felt entitled to be buried next to her is one more humiliation in a pop cultural landscape we should all be ashamed of.

“Please don’t make me a joke… I don’t mind making jokes, but I don’t want to look like one… I want to be an artist, an actress with integrity..”

 - Marilyn Monroe, last taped interview, days before her death

She deserved better than this

Can I just also say, in addition to all this, that I’m still pissed off about the fact that Joe DiMaggio swooped in and gave Marilyn a Christian funeral before her Rabbi could return from a trip overseas? ‘Cause that shit is fucked up.

So many men who claimed to be in love with her, and not one could fucking respect her wishes, even in death.

“I’ve never fooled anyone. I’ve let people fool
themselves. They didn’t bother to find out who and what I was. Instead
they would invent a character for me. I wouldn’t argue with them. They
were obviously loving somebody I wasn’t.””  — Marilyn Monroe

Also:

As one of the biggest Ella Fitzgerald fans, she literally helped desegregate her performances. Ella was not allowed to play at Mocambo because of her
race.

Ella Fitzgerald: “I owe Marilyn Monroe a real debt… she personally called the owner of
the Mocambo, and told him she wanted me booked immediately, and if he
would do it, she would take a front table every night. She told him –
and it was true, due to Marilyn’s superstar status – that the press
would go wild. The owner said yes, and Marilyn was there, front table,
every night. The press went overboard. After that, I never had to play a
small jazz club again. She was an unusual woman – a little ahead of her
times. And she didn’t know it.” thisisnotmyfairytaleendingg
(Source: dmvnessa)

ALSO:

In August 1956, Monroe began filming The Prince and the Showgirl, with Laurence Olivier
staring and directing. The production was complicated by conflicts
between him and Monroe. He angered her with the patronizing statement
“All you have to do is be
sexy” and his attempts to get her to replicate Vivien Leigh’s
interpretation. She became pregnant and miscarried during the production, which heavily worsened her depression and increased her drug abuse.

A L S O , I will never forget watching a documentary about her once and, speaking about her marriage with Arthur Miller, the narrator said, verbatim: “America’s Brain had married America’s Body”. Like, literally, because he was a famous writer, he was entitled to personhood; she, being an actress, and a beautiful woman, was reduced to being “a body”. I have never been more enraged with her portrayal in the media. If you want to be dismissive of her,  literally come for you.

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aliaitee:

mboy-mlm:

the-claire-bitch-project:

thepunksink:

the-big-phan-theory:

doyounoelyourenemy:

sidvintage:

motherfuckin-pajamas:

deadkennedysandattractivemen:

A punk stops during a gay pride parade to allow a mesmerized child to touch his jacket spikes.

I lost control about reblogging this picture. 

and this is the perfect “fuck you” to people who stereotype people like this. 

literally one of my favourite pictures ever

nothing more punk than letting small children touch your clothes spikes or hair spikes

If you think punks would miss the opportunity to be a good fucking human to kids you don’t know much about punks

Being nice to kids is literally the number one punk activity

THIS IS THE SAME DUDE

BITCH NO WAYYYY

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littlegoddesshestia:

thatpettyblackgirl:

At this point ICE is a domestic terrorist organization.

KEEP SPREADING STORIES ABOUT PEOPLE STANDING UP FOR EACH OTHER. IT ISN’T JUST A “IF YOU’RE A REALLY GOOD PERSON YOU WOULD RISK THIS” IT’S SOMETHING THAT SHOULD BE NORMAL. YOU SHOULD ALWAYS STAND UP FOR YOUR FELLOW HUMANS

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sablerabbit:

sword-snobby:

A fangirling Stephen Colbert is just too adorable and wonderful…

Congratulations, Dr. Jones. Here is your hat. “My name isn’t ‘Jones.’” IT IS NOW.

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