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Jim made the connection - I didn't notice it right away.
Yesterday, when we got the word?
Cliff's birthday.
I told you that there was a blue baby blanket in this year's fukubukuro bag? Not yellow, not pink, purple or green. Blue.
I left prior gig days before the 10th anniversary of Cliff's passing - when the writing on the wall could no longer be ignored. (Cliff was a big stickler for setting boundaries with employers. You didn't work overtime for no good reason, and you worked to make a living, not have a life. He would NOT have approved of what I went through last summer. Not one bit.)
But he always thought working hard was the key to everything.
I just got news that has me floored.
New boss at new gig?
He and his wife pooled their frequent flyer mile accounts and got us our tickets. All I have to buy is Xander's one-way back. Hotels and train tickets. Taxi cab fare.
STUNNED. Someone make me an icon. There are flies buzzing in and out of my slack jawed mouth right now.
The flights are even nonstops, direct.
I know how to say thanks in Chinese - Cliff taught me. So far, it's the only Chinese I know. He learned it when he was working with the Taiwanese on missle projects in the 70's and 80's.
I know when Cliff's been by. Shit happens. THIS kind of stuff. (Let alone being insanely lucky on a regular basis. Stupidly lucky.)
BUH.
Yesterday, when we got the word?
Cliff's birthday.
I told you that there was a blue baby blanket in this year's fukubukuro bag? Not yellow, not pink, purple or green. Blue.
I left prior gig days before the 10th anniversary of Cliff's passing - when the writing on the wall could no longer be ignored. (Cliff was a big stickler for setting boundaries with employers. You didn't work overtime for no good reason, and you worked to make a living, not have a life. He would NOT have approved of what I went through last summer. Not one bit.)
But he always thought working hard was the key to everything.
I just got news that has me floored.
New boss at new gig?
He and his wife pooled their frequent flyer mile accounts and got us our tickets. All I have to buy is Xander's one-way back. Hotels and train tickets. Taxi cab fare.
STUNNED. Someone make me an icon. There are flies buzzing in and out of my slack jawed mouth right now.
The flights are even nonstops, direct.
I know how to say thanks in Chinese - Cliff taught me. So far, it's the only Chinese I know. He learned it when he was working with the Taiwanese on missle projects in the 70's and 80's.
I know when Cliff's been by. Shit happens. THIS kind of stuff. (Let alone being insanely lucky on a regular basis. Stupidly lucky.)
BUH.
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Date: 2009-02-04 07:27 pm (UTC)That is SO cool.
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Date: 2009-02-04 07:43 pm (UTC)Maybe...maybe Xander is Cliff's new home?
or is that just too far out. I should shut up. But wow.
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Date: 2009-02-04 07:57 pm (UTC)Then again, what do I know...
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Date: 2009-02-04 09:12 pm (UTC)This qualifies.
Point to Mr. Stapfer, wherever you are.
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Date: 2009-02-04 10:19 pm (UTC)But he was quite certain children were the future and if they were here, they were an investment towards that future and should not be denied anything that would make a good outcome possible.
They just didn't get interesting until oh, about 12 years of age or so.
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Date: 2009-02-04 08:01 pm (UTC)In all senses of the word. Wow.
Well, I have my own experience with miracles around adoptions. This just was meant to be at a particular time, in a particular way. Go with it.
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Date: 2009-02-04 08:11 pm (UTC)I am so happy for you! :)
Congratulations ^^
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Date: 2009-02-04 08:31 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-02-04 09:33 pm (UTC)i have been telling everyone i know about your story in the past day or so. they all agree you deserve it, though ;D
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Date: 2009-02-04 10:43 pm (UTC)What wonderful news!
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Date: 2009-02-04 09:45 pm (UTC)You are good people.
I am so happy for you. :)
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Date: 2009-02-04 10:21 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-02-04 10:09 pm (UTC)I am so very happy for you. Totally.
Some friends of my parents adopted a beautiful little girl from China back in the 80's, we've lost touch but you're making me wonder how little Matina is doing now.
Not so little, obviously, but yeah.
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Date: 2009-02-04 11:27 pm (UTC)I am so very happy for you.
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Date: 2009-02-05 03:40 am (UTC)Icons cannot express this joy.
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Date: 2009-02-05 05:10 pm (UTC)I'm really very resistant to trying to cram something as complex as Chinese into my poor head with the five other languages already stewing in there - and making a mockery of it in the process. I just don't speak it. When the kids go to school to learn it, I'll go with them.
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