On some days -
Jul. 25th, 2005 02:59 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
You think of the people who have gone - and you miss them.
Whether it was a disagreement that pointed up some very big problems in the relationship - and they parted from you.
Or their time here was finished, and they went on ahead.
Or maybe it was something as simple as changing jobs. Graduating. Moving to a new neighborhood. Growing away.
On some days, the ones you lose to "that's just the way it goes" are the hardest. Because there really is no reason. They're just gone.
And there is, again, nothing to be done about it.
But you don't forget.
And some days, you remember. And you know something has been lost along the way.
..and you kick the can, curse and move on.
Whether it was a disagreement that pointed up some very big problems in the relationship - and they parted from you.
Or their time here was finished, and they went on ahead.
Or maybe it was something as simple as changing jobs. Graduating. Moving to a new neighborhood. Growing away.
On some days, the ones you lose to "that's just the way it goes" are the hardest. Because there really is no reason. They're just gone.
And there is, again, nothing to be done about it.
But you don't forget.
And some days, you remember. And you know something has been lost along the way.
..and you kick the can, curse and move on.