Pictures worth that thousand -
Feb. 6th, 2009 08:39 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Seriously.
Check the pictures of the house. Don't notice all the PHOTOGRAPHERS camped out, of course.
The envy is just OUT there. I mean - if she'd won 8 million dollars, that would be one thing. There are socially acceptable ways to go wow, you got some - when it's money.
When it's children? Dude. Gloves come OFF.
*shakes head* When we restrict assistance to children, and only those people who have children - and then do not extend the same assistance (perceived value) to the same people who pay taxes and do NOT have children - what can you expect. The simple perception is that you're stealing, and the brains stop there and spin.
I wonder how much louder people would scream if she decided that some of the kids needed to be placed for adoption.
For my mind, it's not an issue for me - it's very clear there's a lot of people watching (whether they should be or not is another topic for another day) and if anything goes toes up, we'll ALL know (and sell some more advertising dollars).
Everyone I've ever known to have higher order multiples, has had volunteer support. If people are willing to do that? I'm fine with it - everyone has their own take on it, and that one is at least supportive and useful, neh?
But people taking time out of their days to do drive-by bitchslaps? *sigh* Get a better hobby, jeez. That sort of thing only darkens your soul.
(And puts book to that family's assertion that their children would be better off dead without them - and justifies their killing them, and then themselves. How DARE they have kids and not support them? FAILURE. FAILURE. BLAM.)
Find a way through. Only way out, after all.
Check the pictures of the house. Don't notice all the PHOTOGRAPHERS camped out, of course.
The envy is just OUT there. I mean - if she'd won 8 million dollars, that would be one thing. There are socially acceptable ways to go wow, you got some - when it's money.
When it's children? Dude. Gloves come OFF.
*shakes head* When we restrict assistance to children, and only those people who have children - and then do not extend the same assistance (perceived value) to the same people who pay taxes and do NOT have children - what can you expect. The simple perception is that you're stealing, and the brains stop there and spin.
I wonder how much louder people would scream if she decided that some of the kids needed to be placed for adoption.
For my mind, it's not an issue for me - it's very clear there's a lot of people watching (whether they should be or not is another topic for another day) and if anything goes toes up, we'll ALL know (and sell some more advertising dollars).
Everyone I've ever known to have higher order multiples, has had volunteer support. If people are willing to do that? I'm fine with it - everyone has their own take on it, and that one is at least supportive and useful, neh?
But people taking time out of their days to do drive-by bitchslaps? *sigh* Get a better hobby, jeez. That sort of thing only darkens your soul.
(And puts book to that family's assertion that their children would be better off dead without them - and justifies their killing them, and then themselves. How DARE they have kids and not support them? FAILURE. FAILURE. BLAM.)
Find a way through. Only way out, after all.