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kyburgI'm not poly - and this bugs the CRAP out of me:
And even if you never so much as touch him, this emotional attachment has just as much potential as a sexual fling to damage your marriage. "We only have so much emotional energy; the more of it we spend outside of our marriage, the less we have inside our marriage," says Neuman. "And after a while, we simply do not have enough emotions and love and caring and time for both."
I'll admit it - I know I can't maintain the same level of intense with more than one partner at a time.
But to just simply la-de-da into something? And then make the base assumption this is true ALWAYS?
Wow. Fall in love, don't have friends. Matter of fact, you have kids? By this token...okay. COME ON.
Of course, you read on - and HAY. You always start lying about stuff like this, and it ends up in bed and....
Discuss amongst yourselves. I've got things to do.
EDIT: OH FUCK IT'S ONLY WOMEN WHO DO THIS. *shreds*
And even if you never so much as touch him, this emotional attachment has just as much potential as a sexual fling to damage your marriage. "We only have so much emotional energy; the more of it we spend outside of our marriage, the less we have inside our marriage," says Neuman. "And after a while, we simply do not have enough emotions and love and caring and time for both."
I'll admit it - I know I can't maintain the same level of intense with more than one partner at a time.
But to just simply la-de-da into something? And then make the base assumption this is true ALWAYS?
Wow. Fall in love, don't have friends. Matter of fact, you have kids? By this token...okay. COME ON.
Of course, you read on - and HAY. You always start lying about stuff like this, and it ends up in bed and....
Discuss amongst yourselves. I've got things to do.
EDIT: OH FUCK IT'S ONLY WOMEN WHO DO THIS. *shreds*
