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Think outside the big box: Carolers kicked out of stores
by Will Braun

Last Saturday I got kicked out of one mall and four big box stores - a Christmas shopping first for me. Twenty-five people and I, who probably go to church more often than the mall, were there to sing Christmas carols, evidently the kind that get people banished from the fluorescent premises of holiday madness.

Imagine standing in the checkout line at the local Super-Mega Deal-o-rama - in this case, in snowy Winnipeg, Canada - as a cheerful troupe of well-wishers march in the door singing "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen" - or no, wait...those aren't the traditional lyrics:

Slow down ye frantic shoppers for there's something we must say
If you would spare a moment all the stores would go away
Big business has been telling us what Christmas means today
Now it's time we decided for ourselves, for ourselves
Yes, it's time we decided for ourselves...


Our record was three full songs before being escorted out (in that case, politely). The opposition to our commercial sacrilege, however, did not come from shoppers. We might have been a fringe group oddly immune to public embarrassment, but shoppers didn't treat us that way. Many were curious, some indifferent, and a few responded as though they'd met a long-lost friend.

The Buy Nothing Christmas campaign, the impetus for our singing spree, taps into increasing societal fatigue around the high-pressure commercial Christmas season. The four-year-old international campaign is inspired by Adbuster’s Buy Nothing Day, and the driving force behind it is Aiden Enns, former managing editor at Adbusters magazine. The campaign has Christian origins but appeals more broadly, not unlike the event it seeks to redeem. A campaign poster has Jesus asking, "Where did I say that you should buy so much stuff to celebrate my birthday?"

Enns, a member of Hope Mennonite Church in Winnipeg, says there is a "ready hunger" for the message, citing 3,000-plus daily visitors to buynothingchristmas.org in recent days.

Enns joined our group, which also included a strong United Church youth contingent. For him, retail caroling is less a protest than an invitation to a less frenzied and happier Christmas experience. As for getting ousted from retail establishments, Enns says "mischief is a good thing if something's wrong with 'normal.'" And besides, it's festive mischief. When permitted, we ended a store visit with a hearty round of "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" (traditional lyrics).

We banked on the fact that Christmas is the only season in which amateur public singing makes social sense (even if just barely). It's a unique season. There's a tinge of spiritual nostalgia in the air, something that draws one back to those things that most satisfy the human spirit - family, fun, song, goodwill, and even religion. Society breaks out in a bit of a smile.

Our message was a simple call to follow this seasonal inclination toward cheer and goodwill, rather than getting sidetracked by the stuff. It has an intuitive appeal for many. Perhaps people are getting weary of the contradictions. We feel drawn to basic human goodness, yet find ourselves stuck in Deal-orama seeking the perfect gift for that special someone who has everything but who will nonetheless get our "Made in China" plastic package of holiday affection.

Last Valentine's Day, the same mall that disapproved of our carols boldly advertised: "Yes, you can buy love." I e-mailed the mall manager wanting to hear someone defend such a bold-faced contradiction of what we've all known to be true since childhood. Her logic, by necessity, was as counterintuitive as the original claim, a logic akin to that which somehow compels us back into the perennial stress of Christmas excess.

Enns notes little difference between churchgoers and others when it comes to shopping. "That's a sad commentary on the church's compliance with consumer culture." A recent poll conducted by the Center for a New American Dream found widespread disillusionment with consumerism and materialism among Americans. A full 86% of those polled said they are more interested in pursuing "more of what matters in life," as opposed to a "more is better" tack.

The Buy Nothing Christmas campaign grants cultural permission to opt out of the frenzy, to celebrate more than just stuff. The campaign Web site provides a "catalogue" of non-purchased gift ideas and suggestions for making Christmas less stressful, more fun, and more meaningful. And there's nothing Scrooge-like about it: we were the happiest people in the mall.

I am not a hard-core Buy Nothing adherent, but I am pleased with my idea for a non-purchased gift for my father-in-law (whose name I drew). And my "shopped-until-she-dropped" Mom seems to have proclaimed a gift-free Christmas on my side of the family. If we had kids, more creativity would be required.

I know this Christmas will be at least as good as any other. And I suspect next year my holiday nostalgia will include a faint longing for some festive mischief.

Will Braun is a Mennonite writer from Winnipeg, Canada. He can be reached at benottobraun@yahoo.ca.

Date: 2004-12-18 08:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moropus.livejournal.com
"Yes, you can buy love."

No, you can't. Or even anything remotely like it. The most you can buy is the temporary attention of somebody attracted to your credit limit.

I don't think socks and underwear make great presents, but let's try some reality here. The people who love you do not want you to become frazzled and broke trying to buy a perfect commercial holiday that is impossible to produce.

Date: 2004-12-18 12:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sunfell.livejournal.com
I don't like what I call "GiftMas". I tell my friends and family that they don't need to buy me anything- and I'll return the favor. Sadly, I have friends who insist on getting me stuff.

Feh. I'll confess that I did buy some stuff this year- stuff people needed- a rice cooker, some kitchen utensils, some tableware... I'm debating on a DVD-VCR for my sister. She's not rich, and her business has been slow, so I might splurge on that. Total for all the splurging: around $200.00, and not a penny of it on credit cards. I've spent a little on myself, too- catalog clothing, mostly.

I do keep my home a Holiday-free zone. No decorations, no lights, no music- none of it. Part of this is because my workplace becomes Christmasland, so I get my fill of Yuletide cheer when I go to work- decorations, choirs, the works. All that will vanish next week, in preparation for General Assembly, and the place will return to its Zen simplicity, with maybe a bit of red, white and blue bunting here and there.

I admire the concept of Buy Nothing Day. I adhere to my own version of it, which might be unorthodox, because circumstances force me to buy stuff, but it's minimal.

Sunfell

Buy nothing, eh?

Date: 2004-12-19 04:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ionotter.livejournal.com
60 Christmas cards: $9.00 (they were on sale for boxes of 30)
2 books of stamps: Free! Dad bought them.
2 boxes bulk Chocolate chip cookie mix: $14.00
2 boxes baking butter: $5.00
2 boxes 18 doz eggs: $4.50
1 gallon vegetable oil: $4.95
7 packages oatmeal cookies: $14.00
7 packages sugar cookies: $14.00
2 tins of raisins: $6.00
4 disposable cookie sheets: $5.00
13 3lb cookie tins: $26.00
14 shipping boxes: $20.00
Shipping costs: $112.00

Total Christmas costs: $234.45

Having everyone I care about taken care of with Christmas cards and fresh, home-baked Christmas cookies: Priceless.

You can buy lots of things, but for everything else, there's love.

Re: Buy nothing, eh?

Date: 2004-12-19 08:26 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] kyburg.livejournal.com
*nods* Christmas should always be homemade!

(And I plan to hit the day-after-Christmas sales at Stats this year with wild abandon....50% off everything. EVERYTHING.)

Date: 2004-12-19 07:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sidelobe.livejournal.com
Sadly, the carolers might have come closer to having their desired effect by singing the traditional lyrics. First, they wouldn't have been escorted out so quickly. Second, people wouldn't have labeled them as a bunch of well-meaning kooks. They might have even stopped to listen for a few moments. Taken a deep breath and a few seconds to remember why they were really there.

I've thought about the buy-nothing Christmas idea. But I've come to the conclusion that Christmas, as celebrated in the 21st Century, is just fine. Yes, it is insanely commercial. But it gets families and friends together. It brings people to Church, even if it's the only day of the year they go. Many more people learn about "the reason for the season" than they would if it weren't "big". It forces me to consider what my friends and far-flung family would like for gifts, thinking about them in the process.

Date: 2004-12-19 08:25 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] kyburg.livejournal.com
One of my favorite targets for abuse - Calvary Chapel - is just down the street from me. Want to join their church? They pull a credit check on your application.

And while Easter is sold out, Christmas Day nobody is there - they're "all home with their families."

Feh.

Jehovah's Wittnesses have their hall across the street. And people wonder why I'm having trouble finding a church home!

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