Date: 2007-04-01 05:18 pm (UTC)
Having kids brought a lot of things into focus for my husband also. He's a good Dad and he wanted Kaitlyn and Zach very very much. But, Mike was older than me when we had our first child - so I'm not sure that he counts into your cross section here.

I'm the first to admit that life isn't easy. Are there days when I'd like it to be? Yes, yes of course I do. I'd be foolish to say otherwise. But, again, life not being easy doesn't have a baring on whether or not I'm able to be a good parent. I'm a good Mom. Mike is a good Dad. We struggle, but we always make do. We have really happy, blissfully happy children. They're well behaved, they're very smart, they're clean and healthy. They're polite, compassionate and helpful. We're able to achieve that, even though life isn't easy.

So, I don't think I short cut anything at all. I just did it differently than you (And maybe others) think it should get done. That doesn't make anything we did wrong - nor does it invalidate anything you think is important.
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