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We've begun work to accept the referral of an adoption from Taiwan.

I'll be scanning the photos we have tomorrow when I get access to a scanner, but the vital statistics are these:

He's a little over two and a half years old, born August 16, 2005. We have his history - we know who his mother was (her name, her birthday...yes, all that), who she was married to at the time she had him - and that he was not the biological father. That's largely why he was placed for adoption - that, and a hypothyroid issue that has been treated since he was born.

He was born in a hospital - we know where - we even know the attending physician's name.

He's been in foster care, with the same family, since he was born.

I've got enough information to do his natal chart. It's not enough, mind. I'm going to be sending a questionnaire over to his foster family as soon as I can, with a camera...wait, I'm getting ahead of myself.

His name is Yang I. Yang is his mother's family name, and I have the kanji characters that make up his name - if I can incorporate it in, I will - but the working name is Alexander-Paul DeSilva Bell. (I need to see about the I - 'Eee' - and what it means. First?)

The pictures you get with these referrals aren't always happy ones. His are. There is a piano in the foster home, you can see it in some of the shots. There also appears to be other children in the home as well.

We've got a lot of work to do. And a raffle or two to do.

And fast. We're aiming to have him home by his third birthday, and will likely be able to do so. The only thing that I have any reservation about is the social worker who will be doing our home study (updating the existing one, really) and if she has any reservations about it. If she does, we deal. Until then - we want him, and we're going to work hard to get him home as soon as possible.

He has a foster family I can keep sending them pictures to. People we can go back to see, God willing.

No, I have no intention of taking him away from them - he'll be my son, but not my property.

He looks like he likes blocks and things that move. I need to call my primary care doctor, the endocrinologist and get a pediatric referral.

I have lots to do. Folks, you want to help me out - now's the time. Sis is already saying baby shower in June. Count on it -

Finally. I'm going to be someone's Mommy Mom.

(And China can take all the time it wants. We'll still be able to adopt from that program when they're ready.)

I can't wait.

I've got a lot to do.

Little boy stuff. OH YEAH.
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Date: 2008-04-23 04:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bleudaisy.livejournal.com
CONGRATS!!! That's fantastic! I hope all goes well with the home visit.

So, in total, how long did it take you to get a child through adoption (from start to finish). I may be going this route and I'm wondering what I'd realistically be looking at as far as time goes.

Again, CONGRATS!!! How exciting! A cute little boy! I can't wait for the pictures! *^_^*

Date: 2008-04-23 05:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] unclejimbo.livejournal.com
We started out with DCFS about 5 years ago. We've been with Heartsent a bit more than 2 years when we thought the China program was going to take about as much time as Taiwan. Go fig...

If you choose to go with an International adoption, talk with the staff about what is the likely turn around time and where the pitfall might be. (If the Olympics are going to that country, think about going somewhere else. Just saying...)

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From: [identity profile] kyburg.livejournal.com - Date: 2008-04-23 06:03 am (UTC) - Expand

YAAAAAYYYYY

Date: 2008-04-23 04:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bitpig.livejournal.com
Congratulations! If you need any little boy help — from advice to prayers! — please don't hesitate to call on us.

May God bless you both all three of you.

Date: 2008-04-23 05:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] muimi07.livejournal.com
CONGRATULATIONS!!! A little boy to light up your world! That's so awesome!! :D :D :D

Date: 2008-04-23 05:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zpdiduda.livejournal.com
Oh hooray!! I'm thrilled for you!

I'm looking forward to pictures. :)

Date: 2008-04-23 05:04 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] kshandra
There aren't enough KermitFlails in the world to express how I feel right now.

Congratulations.

Date: 2008-04-23 05:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vampireanneke.livejournal.com
Congradulations. I hope it all goes smoothly.

Date: 2008-04-23 05:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cerulean-me.livejournal.com
OMG! Congrats!!! Let us know when we can start collecting stuff to send you!

Date: 2008-04-23 05:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 7leaguebootdisk.livejournal.com
Yup, congratulations and such!

Date: 2008-04-23 05:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] filkerdave.livejournal.com
W00t! Dancing rodents!

Date: 2008-04-23 05:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tomlemos.livejournal.com
Wow. I'm happy for all three of you.

That's wonderful.

Date: 2008-04-23 05:51 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] shirasade
Oh, that's so fantastic, I'm so happy for you! What a long journey... *hugs*

Date: 2008-04-23 05:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] feyandstrange.livejournal.com
Wonderful, awesome news! I know how hard you've worked and hoped for this one - here's hoping the rest goes even more smoothly. You guys totally deserve this, and you're going to be awesome parents.

Email inbound to the address on your profile, also, connecting you to some other folks who might have helpful advice re: Taiwan.

...I know what to get postpartum mommies, and I know what to get three-year-olds, but what does one get for adopting parents? Since "more hours in the day" isn't on Amazon yet (I keep looking)... let us know if and when there's a wish list.

Hooray!

Date: 2008-04-23 05:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] scarcrest.livejournal.com
Congratulations! I'm so glad this is finally coming together for you ... you've waited SO LONG, from what I've read here and what [livejournal.com profile] reannon has told me.

Date: 2008-04-23 06:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lackofgravitas.livejournal.com
Only the best LJ news I've woken up to in, ooh, forever! Congratulations, how very very very exciting! :)

Date: 2008-04-23 06:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] isolt.livejournal.com
This is wonderful wonderful news! I'm so happy to hear you won't have to wait much longer, and so happy for your family. :)

Date: 2008-04-23 06:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yasha-chan.livejournal.com
Yay! Congrats!! I hope everything works out and you get him home ASAP!

Date: 2008-04-23 06:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] violet-tigress1.livejournal.com
That's wonderful! Congratulations!

Date: 2008-04-23 06:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mactavish.livejournal.com
*tears for you*

Date: 2008-04-23 07:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dawnspring.livejournal.com
My prayers for you and yours in hopes that this does go through without a hitch. This is wonderful!! :D

Date: 2008-04-23 09:32 am (UTC)

Date: 2008-04-23 10:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sputnik.livejournal.com
Great news!

Date: 2008-04-23 11:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shadesong.livejournal.com
**does the dance of joy**

Date: 2008-04-23 11:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jyantj.livejournal.com
CONGRATULATIONS! I hope things go smoothly and that you can have your family united very soon.

Date: 2008-04-23 11:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lesliepear.livejournal.com
Terrific!!!!

Date: 2008-04-23 11:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lupaloo.livejournal.com
Very happy for you! I hope everything goes very well.

Date: 2008-04-23 11:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malibrarian.livejournal.com
Congratulations on the great news! Pictures ASAP and get cracking on that big boy room! Study your Chinese! Make lists! Run, run, run...
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