For the sake of documentation -
Nov. 28th, 2011 01:02 pmOh heck, check the old entries for Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving, traditionally around here has been the blow-out of the blow-out affairs. The best china, the equipment rentals, the once-a-year deep cleaning of the house, including the carpets - you name it. I did it before we sat down and made little piggies of ourselves, not choking on our food while we tried to hold conversations with people I got to see inside my house once a year.
This year?
We bailed.
While we were on vacation in Hawaii - Mom had spent all of it in the hospital. Discharged on a Friday, she was re-admitted the following Monday with a blood clot in the arm (pretty scary), and she stayed in that facility for 48 hours (we're home at this point, but I'm sick and can't visit), then she's moved to the hospital near her home...but I'm still sick, and now she's two hours drive away on top of that...and when she is discharged, it is home with an aide because she's now developed gout in both her hands and feet and really won't be walking anywhere until that passes.
So. It's a given Mom isn't going anywhere for Thanksgiving. And if we did go out there? Nobody is eating anything.
Sis? Has a wedding to attend out of town the Sunday following, so is already travelling and being so far behind on work because of the Mom stuff she's been handling? She is *also* not going anywhere for Thanksgiving.
I swear, the moment I heard nobody was coming to my house I could have cheered. Four whole days that I don't really have to be anywhere, get dressed up or perform to a schedule...and I can go out to see Mom on Saturday when the traffic isn't nuts, have a nice time and leave before lunch so we won't wear her out.
They say variety is the spice of life - man, they ain't kidding.
Then on Wednesday, I find out there's a launch party for the biggest Mars Space Laboratory rover, Curiosity, that we got to see being built last JPL Open House at the Columbia Memorial Space Museum in Downey, at 6:30 AM. Like, right on our way out.
SWEET.
Thursday, I got up when I damn well felt like it, put a 10 lb. bird in the oven, made three pies and piddled around doing who knows what until surprised by a visit by
n6vfp. Ate food later, took naps and literally slacked our way through the day.
Friday, not much different.
Saturday, got the troops up and there to the museum, tweeted happily along with launch...and kid got to play play play with everything in the place while his parents got to be huge space geeks.
Then we drove out to see Mom, had a GOOD visit - she's better, she's definitely getting better at this point, maybe Christmas will be a go outside the house - and we came back, fell down...and Jim went back to work, and kid and I went to church.
And that was the holiday. Ta da.
My car has gotten love, my Sims 2 game got played to a fare-thee-well and there you go.
Thanksgiving, 2011. I am so grateful nothing worse went on. Seriously!
This year?
We bailed.
While we were on vacation in Hawaii - Mom had spent all of it in the hospital. Discharged on a Friday, she was re-admitted the following Monday with a blood clot in the arm (pretty scary), and she stayed in that facility for 48 hours (we're home at this point, but I'm sick and can't visit), then she's moved to the hospital near her home...but I'm still sick, and now she's two hours drive away on top of that...and when she is discharged, it is home with an aide because she's now developed gout in both her hands and feet and really won't be walking anywhere until that passes.
So. It's a given Mom isn't going anywhere for Thanksgiving. And if we did go out there? Nobody is eating anything.
Sis? Has a wedding to attend out of town the Sunday following, so is already travelling and being so far behind on work because of the Mom stuff she's been handling? She is *also* not going anywhere for Thanksgiving.
I swear, the moment I heard nobody was coming to my house I could have cheered. Four whole days that I don't really have to be anywhere, get dressed up or perform to a schedule...and I can go out to see Mom on Saturday when the traffic isn't nuts, have a nice time and leave before lunch so we won't wear her out.
They say variety is the spice of life - man, they ain't kidding.
Then on Wednesday, I find out there's a launch party for the biggest Mars Space Laboratory rover, Curiosity, that we got to see being built last JPL Open House at the Columbia Memorial Space Museum in Downey, at 6:30 AM. Like, right on our way out.
SWEET.
Thursday, I got up when I damn well felt like it, put a 10 lb. bird in the oven, made three pies and piddled around doing who knows what until surprised by a visit by
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Friday, not much different.
Saturday, got the troops up and there to the museum, tweeted happily along with launch...and kid got to play play play with everything in the place while his parents got to be huge space geeks.
Then we drove out to see Mom, had a GOOD visit - she's better, she's definitely getting better at this point, maybe Christmas will be a go outside the house - and we came back, fell down...and Jim went back to work, and kid and I went to church.
And that was the holiday. Ta da.
My car has gotten love, my Sims 2 game got played to a fare-thee-well and there you go.
Thanksgiving, 2011. I am so grateful nothing worse went on. Seriously!