I'll be blunt. Yesterday sucked so hard, we all gained a few pounds by gravity. Seriously.
Then the day ended. Night began - and everything got a whole lot better. (At least for me. You guys?)
My kid took his nap at daycare. Small potatoes, maybe. But it was an immediate difference on the arrival home, getting up this morning - everything. You just don't function well on no sleep - and for a wee man of four years, getting those two hours in the afternoon is just critical. He may not think so - but with the transition load on him right now, the emotional fragility just ramps up enough to catch in my throat when he doesn't sleep. And he doesn't sleep because he's worried. Maybe even a little scared. So yeah, I went to daycare at naptime yesterday and talked to the teachers...but didn't actually interact with kiddo. Helicopter Parent R Us, mebbe. But he slept - and slept again last night more normally - and headed in this morning in a better place. Total win.
That Idiot from South Carolina (really, who's paying attention to names right now) has done something I'm sure he hadn't intended. His challenger for his seat in the next election is fund raising LIKE WHOA overnight. Even better - said worthy is an Iraq War veteran to boot. YOU LIE has a whole 'nother connotation to those guys, lemme tellya. And people who really weren't all that interested in party unity? Uh, right. They're plenty interested Right Now, baby.
If you have a healthy sense of gallows humor (and I do) - this is just popcorn and ticket selling time. AH-mazing.
Someone I found while being Cliff's caregiver was Jennifer Louden - a self-care maven. For me, some times she gets too focused on the inner life for my comfort level - but she's on Twitter, and this morning, found some gold I think everyone needs - This is where you save me - ...there are these moments when we are revealed. There are these moments where our face powder and our deodorant and our hip red glasses and our clean counters and our eating salad one bite at a time all go flying out the window.
What I really want to say is that when people break, it happens by surprise.
Go take a look.
For me, candy corn is in my immediate future (like right after I hit the post button) - so it's all good here. Giddy good. I'm enjoying it, believe me.
Then the day ended. Night began - and everything got a whole lot better. (At least for me. You guys?)
My kid took his nap at daycare. Small potatoes, maybe. But it was an immediate difference on the arrival home, getting up this morning - everything. You just don't function well on no sleep - and for a wee man of four years, getting those two hours in the afternoon is just critical. He may not think so - but with the transition load on him right now, the emotional fragility just ramps up enough to catch in my throat when he doesn't sleep. And he doesn't sleep because he's worried. Maybe even a little scared. So yeah, I went to daycare at naptime yesterday and talked to the teachers...but didn't actually interact with kiddo. Helicopter Parent R Us, mebbe. But he slept - and slept again last night more normally - and headed in this morning in a better place. Total win.
That Idiot from South Carolina (really, who's paying attention to names right now) has done something I'm sure he hadn't intended. His challenger for his seat in the next election is fund raising LIKE WHOA overnight. Even better - said worthy is an Iraq War veteran to boot. YOU LIE has a whole 'nother connotation to those guys, lemme tellya. And people who really weren't all that interested in party unity? Uh, right. They're plenty interested Right Now, baby.
If you have a healthy sense of gallows humor (and I do) - this is just popcorn and ticket selling time. AH-mazing.
Someone I found while being Cliff's caregiver was Jennifer Louden - a self-care maven. For me, some times she gets too focused on the inner life for my comfort level - but she's on Twitter, and this morning, found some gold I think everyone needs - This is where you save me - ...there are these moments when we are revealed. There are these moments where our face powder and our deodorant and our hip red glasses and our clean counters and our eating salad one bite at a time all go flying out the window.
What I really want to say is that when people break, it happens by surprise.
Go take a look.
For me, candy corn is in my immediate future (like right after I hit the post button) - so it's all good here. Giddy good. I'm enjoying it, believe me.